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The Handshake That Changed Everything

The story of this tumultuous relationship begins on May 25, 2017, in Brussels, during the first NATO summit following Macron’s election. What should have been a simple ceremonial meeting turned into a test of physical strength that lasted nearly a minute. Trump, known for his domineering handshakes, attempted to subject the young French president to his usual ritual of dominance. But Macron resisted, maintaining constant pressure on the U.S. president’s hand and refusing to give an inch. The message was clear: France would not be intimidated by a U.S. president who confuses respect with domination. In Paris, Macron’s advisors were convinced that Trump would respond only to force, and this first meeting set the tone for what would become a relationship based more on confrontation than on cooperation. It was not just a handshake; it was a declaration of political and strategic independence.

On July 14, 2017, Macron tried a different approach: winning him over with flattery. He invited Trump as the guest of honor to the French National Day celebrations, which included a dinner at the Eiffel Tower. It was a powerful symbolic gesture: despite their differences, France wanted to maintain close ties with its historic ally. Macron was counting on Trump’s vanity and his susceptibility to flattery to persuade him to cooperate on the international stage, with France serving as a bridge-builder between Europe and America. The strategy seemed to work temporarily, with Trump declaring that he had a great relationship with Macron and even going so far as to brush dandruff off the French president’s shoulder to prepare him for a photo. But this diplomatic honeymoon would prove short-lived, and the fundamental differences between the two men would soon resurface with even greater force.

That handshake in 2017 remains, for me, the perfect image of this relationship. Two men shaking hands as if they were about to fight, tension visible in every muscle, every movement. It’s almost comical, really, this masquerade of political machismo. But at the same time, it’s terrifying to think that the fate of the world could depend on these oversized egos. Macron had grasped something essential: with Trump, weakness is punished, strength is rewarded. It’s a primitive, almost animalistic rule, but it’s the one that governs international relations in this brutal new world. And we must acknowledge that the French president played this game with impressive mastery, turning every meeting into a test of will in which he refused to back down.

The 2018 Speech and the Critique of Nationalism

The point of no return came on November 11, 2018, during the 100th anniversary of the end of World War I. In a speech delivered in Trump’s presence, Macron warned of the dangers of nationalism—a thinly veiled criticism of the U.S. president’s “America First” strategy. “Nationalism is a betrayal of patriotism,” he declared—a statement that deeply irritated Trump, who perceived the remarks as a direct attack on his policies. Relations between the two heads of state rapidly deteriorated thereafter, with Macron openly criticizing the U.S. decision to withdraw troops from Syria without consulting NATO allies. Trump retaliated fiercely, tweeting that Macron’s comments were very insulting and claiming that France imposed high tariffs on American products while suffering from a very low approval rating and high unemployment.

In 2019, Macron sparked an international outcry by declaring that NATO was “brain-dead.” This statement, made in an interview with The Economist, was aimed less at the alliance itself than at Trump’s antagonistic attitude toward the organization. France wanted to force a debate: How long could Europe rely on a partner that openly questioned its obligations? Today, those words—which were harshly criticized at the time—can be read as a prophetic warning of the current crisis. The “brain death” of NATO, according to Macron, was the result of a lack of strategic coordination among the allies and America’s rejection of multilateral commitments. This bold criticism marked the definitive end of any illusion of harmonious cooperation between Paris and Washington during the Trump era.

When I reread these speeches from 2018–2019, I am struck by Macron’s foresight. He had seen what was coming. NATO’s “brain death” was more than just a shock phrase; it was a clinical diagnosis of an alliance falling apart under the weight of American selfishness and European indifference. What fascinates me is how Macron managed to articulate this criticism without being directly aggressive, using metaphors that capture the imagination. This is the mark of a man with a long-term vision, who understands that political institutions are not eternal and must be constantly reinvented. Trump, with his transactional and short-term vision, never understood this strategic dimension.

Sources

Primary sources

Deutsche Welle, “It’s complicated: Macron’s turbulent relationship with Trump,” January 21, 2026

NBC News, “Trump shares texts from leaders and vows ‘no going back’ on Greenland,” January 20, 2026

Business Insider, “Inside the tumultuous relationship between Donald Trump and French President Emmanuel Macron,” December 5, 2019

Secondary sources

Atlantic Council, “The French-American Alliance in an America-First Era,” April 2018

German Marshall Fund of the United States, “The U.S.–France Special Relationship: Testing the Macron Method,” 2017

The Economist, “Emmanuel Macron on the Future of Europe,” November 2019

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